This quote is from an unusual source, a cooking show, but it is applicable to the all aspects of life. It’s perfect for procrastinators.

“You take some time,
when you have some time,
to save some time,
when you don’t.”

– Michael Chiarello

“Easy Entertaining with Michael Chiarello”
February 4, 2007

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All Moms have it. I don’t know why, or where it comes from, or exactly at what point we get it, but we possess  a super sixth sense when it comes to our children. It’s the sense that you know something is wrong with your child, even when others don’t. You can’t explain the feeling, but you know you are right.

It’s a tool that I’d been told about for years from friends who were mothers. It’s hard to believe until you gain this sense yourself. Several years ago, on the television show, “Everybody Loves Raymond,” Raymond’s mother could detect a fever in a child just by kissing his or her forehead. When I first saw that episode I thought it was a bit crazy, but now that I have my sixth sense, I can do the same thing. Moms know. We just do.

I use my sense mainly for when to go to the doctor. When our son was a baby we’d debate whether to call the doctor or to wait it out. Since learning about my special sixth sense, I now get to make the calls on when we phone the doctor — my sense trumps any indecision we might have. All I have to say is, “I’m the Mom and I know.”

I was up at 4:00 a.m. this morning, not for my son, but for my 10-year-old dog, Penny. She came into our bedroom wimpering to go outside, so I let her in the backyard thinking she’d be back in about a minute. Not so. She was gone. Through the gate.

This is not entirely new, although I can’t recall it happening in the middle of the night. She found an opening in the gate large enough to slip through. What do you do at 4:00 a.m. when your dog is loose in the neighborhood?

Let’s just end the story here by saying that pets are like kids at times — they need supervision, food, shelter, care and love.

Penny is back home now and maybe I’ll finally get some sleep.

Yesterday I was so proud to offer advice for parents who are having a hard time getting their child to sleep. My son had gotten back on schedule … until last night. I guess I spoke too soon. Today I will, once again, be heading the advice which I wrote about yesterday, hoping to get us all back on schedule.

For those of you with babies, be sure to read the advice from Sarah, a reader who commented on my post from yesterday. She mentions on her blog that parents need to be sure to get rest too. Thanks for the reminder Sarah.

As I’ve mentioned in earlier posts, I’ve been doing some research trying to find an answer, the answer, any answer at all, to break the seemingly new habit my son has of crying (um, screaming) when he’s in his crib. In looking online I found several message boards where parents have posted questions similar to mine in hopes of getting their child to sleep in his bed or crib.

We finally broke the bad sleep cycle with our son, after about three days of sticking to our routine. That, and I bought a musical, light box for his crib which he fell in love with. We opened it together as we were getting ready to go to bed and he was excited about a new toy. I told him he couldn’t use it until he went to bed. After hooking it up to his crib, we did our bedtime routine (brush teeth, read book, etc.) and then I put him in his crib and taught him how to turn on the lights and music by pushing the buttons. I said goodnight and left the room. He played with it the new toy for at least 45 minutes the first night, but he never cried. Finally, he fell asleep and we haven’t had any more sleep problems.

If you have a good sleeper, thank your stars! If you are in need of help, try some of the resources listed below.

Resources for Getting Your Toddler to Sleep:

• Baby Center Message Board:
  My toddler suddenly refuses to fall asleep on her own.
• Help My Baby Sleep:
  Help my baby sleep and us keep our sanity.
• Yahoo Answers:
  Please Help, my 18 month old won’t sleep in crib.
• A common recommendation I found was to buy the book, “Healthy Sleep Habits, Happy Baby.” I tried to get it from my local library, but it was already checked out, no doubt by a desperate parent. I opted for a book on the shelf, “Good Night, Sleep Tight.” All of the advice, from “the Sleep Lady,” is broken down by age of your child. I found it to be helpful in getting our son back on schedule.
• An important element in your quest is to know how much sleep your child needs for his age. Many books on child sleeping will tell you, but I like the chart on BabyCenter.com — it graphically displays how much sleep kids need.

  UPDATE: Read the full resource list in my sleep archive page.