Archive for August, 2009

Aug 31 2009

Lessons From a Father: Ted Kennedy

After watching Ted Kennedy, Jr. give his father’s eulogy, I’m reminded how important it is to teach our children everything we can.

Ted, Jr. emotionally spoke of when he lost his leg at the age of 12 and his father, Ted Kennedy, was there to inspire him to get up a hill he was having a hard time climbing. His father said the words that I long for every parent to tell his/her child,

“I know you can do it. There’s nothing you can’t do.”

These are words that every single child in the world needs to hear. They are powerful and insightful words, and mean the world to children. As parents, it’s our job to teach our kids so many things … how to tie their shoes, how to treat others, how to do well in school, how to be provide for themselves. All important things. But it’s the intangible lessons … the gifts of inspiration that I find so important.

Ted, Jr. goes on to talk about how his father also said, “You can do anything.” Other lessons … work hard … be prepared … persevere.

Great lessons for any kid.

Watch the full eulogy here:

Read the text version here.

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Aug 24 2009

Mother’s Milk Tea

This is what I’ve been drinking lately. It’s a wonderful little tea that helps breastfeeding mothers produce more milk, and I think it works just as well to help you relax (which, helps produce more milk).

I was first introduced to this drink while in attendance at a weekly breastfeeding mother’s tea offered by the breastfeeding education center at our local hospital. It’s here where mothers of newborns (under 8 weeks of age) would meet up, drink “Mother’s Milk tea,” and talk about boobs, diapers and our continual lack of sleep. “Time for tea” quickly became a necessity in the week.

Drinking the tea now reminds me of the early days of learning to feed my newborn, to care for her and to care for myself. The tea offers calming effects far greater than just offering more milk.

I can’t say this stuff really works to increase your milk supply, but I can attest that one day I feared my milk was done.

Gone.

Over.

It was too early for this to happen so I ran to the nearest Whole Foods and bought some of this tea and quickly made a cup. By the next time I needed to produce milk, I had some. I breathed a sigh of relief and began drinking at least one cup of this a day. They say that you need to drink it four times a day for it to really work, but I think it’s worth it no matter how much you drink. The calming effects alone are helpful to breastfeeding moms. Who couldn’t use a calming cup of tea?

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You can buy it in many stores, but if you have trouble look in your “natural” stores in the herbal section.

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And, bonus, each bag offers an inspirational saying on the tag.

I’ll miss this tea when I’m no longer breastfeeding, but I might try one of the options from the tea maker’s line of “Woman’s Tea.”

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Aug 19 2009

The Most Adorable Hand-Decorated Onesie

This onesie is the most adorable creation I’ve seen in quite some time. It’s even more adorable on the baby than it is in this photo.

I just love how it’s hand-crafted and unique. It came from someone I work with. She gave this to me as a gift, made especially for my daughter. She is extremely talented and usually makes outfits of this style for grown ups. I believe this was one of her first for a baby, but I’m certain it isn’t her last.

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Want one? Contact Ashley (ashley.belanger at gmail dot com) or visit her etsy shop.

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Aug 17 2009

Success With Fondant

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As many of you know, I like to make cakes on occasion. I’ve only made a few, most with butter cream and the star tip. Last year for my son’s third birthday I attempted to use fondant for the first time. (Disaster photos are here.)

His birthday is coming up in a few months and I want to try fondant again. This time, I’ve decided to try it on a cake that has no purpose.

No expectations.

No one needs to see it if it’s a failure.

I took photos to share here in case it turned out, but honestly I think I would have shown them even if it was another disaster.

Here’s what I did:

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This is the final result. I’ll take you step by step below:

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I baked a pretty regular cake, just three chocolate layers from a box. Nothing fancy.

Then, I covered it with Wilton’s butter cream frosting. Get the recipe here. This is a great frosting for decorating, but I swear, I am going to search for another one. It’s so greasy and hard to clean up. Don’t even get me started on coloring this frosting. It’s a nightmare. But, it does the trick and kids love it.

I didn’t take a whole lot of care with this layer of frosting, knowing that I was going to be using fondant on top. If this cake were going somewhere other than my stomach, I would let this “set,” then do another layer to be sure that all the crumbs are covered.

TIp: Whatever you see in your butter cream layer, will show up under the fondant.

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I bought fondant this time. Frankly, it’s cheaper to buy it than to try to make it. And, for my first, uh second, attempt, I didn’t want to hassle with a recipe that might not work. If you go to Jo Ann or Michael’s you can buy a box with a coupon and it’s like $2.50. One box covered this entire cake and allowed enough to roll two colors for cutting shapes.

I think buying the fondant while learning is the way to go, but it doesn’t taste very good. I know there are some good recipes out there, so I’ll try those out when I have more time to experiment.

So, back to the rolling.

Roll with a rolling pin. Put powdered sugar down and just roll.

Roll.

Pick up and move.

Roll some more.

Shift and move.

Roll, roll.

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Next, I tried to roll it onto the rolling pin so that I could gracefully place it on top of the cake.

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It seemed to be getting stuck so I sprinkled powdered sugar on it. That didn’t work, it kept getting stuck so I gave up.

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I just picked the whole thing up and put it on top of the cake. It was bigger than I thought.

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Next, I tried to elegantly drape the fondant over the sides. Harder than it looks on TV. My piece was big enough that I had room for it to move and could easily guide it so there wasn’t any wrinkles. You just have to keep lifting and moving.

Lifting and moving.

Lifting and moving.

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Lift and move, now smooth.

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After I was done smoothing, I trimmed the bottom with a knife. I tried a pizza cutter, but it just wasn’t cutting it!

Looks pretty good so far, I think.

You can see some of the imperfections from the crumb coat, but I honestly can’t tell they were there once it was completely decorated.

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Next was colored fondant. I didn’t include photos of how I colored the fondant, but this is what I did:

  • Took a ball of fondant
  • Add tiny bit of food coloring (the gel kind, not regular liquid food coloring) with a toothpick … or, if you are like me, just use the end of a fork or spoon.
  • Then, pull and roll the fondant like taffy.

I had blue and yellow … which is what you see on the final cake. I didn’t plan a blue and yellow cake, but it’s just what I had in the house.

Once the fondant is colored, just roll it out and start cutting with cookie cutters.

This is great for little hands.

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I fell in love with the tiny squares and circles.

We were cutting out a ton of them and I didn’t know what to do with all of them.

Then, I had this brilliant (or insane) idea to do a dental pattern.

It took a long time, but was worth it. And, it was a great learning lesson about patterns. My 3-year-old loved it!

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To get the shapes to stick, just put water on them and press onto the cake. The fancy cake shows on cable tell you to use a brush, but I just used my fingers.

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How many more of those little, tiny shapes do I need?

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Dental pattern done.

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Love the moon … got that by cutting a circle, then using the same circle cutter on the inside, cutting away most of the circle.

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So, I’m not a professional cake decorator, but I think this is pretty cute.

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Yeah, did you notice that blob on the photo above? Here’s a close-up. My son loved cutting the shapes. I couldn’t keep up with him. I was trying to be strategic and artistic where I put the shapes. Then, he hands me this blob and wanted to know what shape it was. He’s leaning over to put it on the cake and I grab it to stop him. I didn’t want him messing up this cake.

What? Please excuse my moment of insanity.

This is a just a, cake.

It’s just a practice cake.

“Put that S-H-A-P-E on this cake, my son!”

It’s B-E-A-U-T-I-F-U-L!
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Viola! Success with fondant. This post took more time to do than using fondant. I’ll definitely try it again.

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Aug 13 2009

‘Nurse-in’ at Chick-Fil-A Brings Awareness of Rights of Breastfeeding Mothers

Today, a coworker told me about a nurse-in (a bazillion moms decent on one location at the same time, to nurse their babies in public) that is happening tomorrow (Friday) at a local Chick-fil-A. We chatted about it at lunch and I didn’t think anything more of it. Then, I read about it on the Moms at Work blog and posted a comment.How It Started

Apparently, there was a woman who was asked to cover up while feeding her baby at a Chick-fil-A — she was, allegedly, handed a kitchen towel to do so … from the General Manager. You can read the story here and here.

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If I didn’t have to work tomorrow, I’m not sure I would attend myself, but I have to support those who are willing to do it. There is a Florida law protecing the rights of mothers to breastfeed wherever they need to. I stress the word *need.* When a baby needs to eat, she needs to eat NOW. Not, when it is convenient to be in the *appropriate* place.

I’m not a mom who can breastfeed well in public. It’s the part I’ve never been comfortable with. The best thing I ever bought was a nursing wrap so that I was always covered. But not everyone has one or can use a wrap. Nor is it always convenient. I bet this General Manager never tried to hold a wriggly, hungry baby in one arm, and with the other hand pull up his shirt, unattach or move a bra, get the baby’s mouth appropriately attached to his breast — all while trying to stay appropriately covered. If he had, I’m sure he’d never brought over that kitchen towel.

I can appreciate any patrons of a restaurant or public place, not wanting to see any breast parts, but the reality is that women can’t always hide it when a baby needs to be fed. We need to educate people that this is natural and if you don’t want to see it turn your head. As a breastfeeding mother, I try to be sensitive to others and always cover up, but if the only way my baby is going to get a meal is for me to show some boobage for a few minutes while I sit eating my chicken sandwich and waffle fries, then so be it.

Related:

*UPDATE — Aug. 14, 3:50 p.m.*

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