Social media is all around us. It seems that everyone is tweeting, blogging and Facebooking their life these days. Earlier this year, my husband took a 30-day break from Facebook. What a great idea that turned out to be — for both of us. Made me realize how often I was checking Facebook for updates. I followed his lead and set limits on how much I could use Facebook in any given day. It changed the way I use the site now. I no longer feel compelled to “check in” on my friends. I can go when I have time, not all the time.
What about for kids?
How hard would it be for a teenager to quit Facebook for a month? It’s hard enough for adults to set limits, but add in peer pressure and it’s gotta double the challenge. “Good Morning America” ran a spot about how some teens are absolutely addicted to social media. One girl who was featured, used the site as many as six hours on a weekend. It was causing fights with her mother and her grades were slipping.
What’s a parent to do?
We must help our teenagers and young children know and understand the Internet. It’s not just social media.
According to the article:
Sherry Turkle, a professor of psychology at the Massachusetts Institute of Technology, said people are now dropping in and out of Facebook, and learning how to integrate it into their lives in better ways.
“We’re not going to be taking away the Internet,” she said. “It’s more a question of living with these devices that so compel us, in a way that serves our human purposes.”
Teaching them and giving them a greater understanding of the how’s and why’s will prepare them for life with technology outside the home. It’s not going away, so we need to give them tools to use to use it properly.
Read the full story to learn about how to determine if your teen is addicted or just spending too much time online and to get tips on how to help him/her live a more balanced life.
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Related:
- ABC’s “As Facebook Takes Over Their Lives, Some Teens are Pulling the Plug“
- Tips for Controlling Your Teen’s Facebook Usage, from ABC
- CNN’s “Five clues That You Are Addicted to Facebook“
- It seems unusual, but there is a Facebook group for “Facebook Addiction Disorder” on Facebook.
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Interesting article…I think that I need to control my own facebook usage! Thanks for the post.
Since leaving Facebook is so hard, we figured – why bother? Instead, a day-off might do us some good. Tuesday seems like a good day for that. Who’s with us?
http://nofacebooktuesdays.com
I think this article is a lot of rubbish. You seem to have missed the point that if someone is addicted to something, then you can’t sit down and have a rational discussion about it all. These days we don’t just have teenagers addicted to Facebook we have whole families addicted to the internet. And we are creating generations of dysfunctional adults who believe that their lives are so scintillating and amazing that we all want to know they went to a cafe or whatever. This addiction is affecting their social skills as they turn to Facebook to meet their needs for falidation, affection and belonging, needs that families are failing to provide. My neice is addicted to Facebook and it has had catastrophic consequences in her life. I have just realized that she would rather live in what I would say would be an unsuitable situation with a father who is also addicted to the internet and brother and sister who are also addicted then start a new life living on a farm with her grandparents who are her only hope, her last refuge, because Facebook brings out a bullying, aggressive side of a girl who will steal and lie to a sweet likeable and intelligent girl when she is deprived of this evil thing. Reading this article has really helped me a lot because it has shown me that I don’t want to give even the smallest amount of my time anymore to this most evil technology. Thanks sincerely for that.