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Jun 04 2009

Oink! We’re the Kitty Familly

The other day my son decided that we would be a family of cats.

I’m “Mommy Cat.”

My husband is “Daddy Cat.”

My son is “Buddy Cat.”

His baby sister is “Baby Cat.”

Cute. Meow!

Until last night, we’re eating dinner when he announces we are no longer a family of cats — we are now pigs.

I’m “Mommy Pig.”

My husband is “Daddy Pig.”

My son is “Buddy Pig.”

His baby sister is “Baby Pig.”

I don’t like where this has gone and hope this new declaration has nothing to do with my figure.

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Apr 27 2009

Growing Tomatoes — Great Activity For a Pre-Schooler

What started out as a project for my mother to entertain my three-year-old son when I got home from the hospital with my new baby, has become a new family activity.

My mother stayed at my house with my son when I was in the hospital and decided that one of their projects together was going to be buying and planting a tomato plant. They made the pilgramage to the Target garden center to buy the supplies: baby tomato plant (sans tomatoes), potting soil and a small tomato trellis. I had tons of empty pots laying around in my backyard from years of abuse. I had given up on gardening long ago.

One afternoon they went outside and planted the tomato plant together and placed it in a sunny spot in the front yard. She explained to him (and to me) that it would need to be watered every single day. Admittedly, this worried me. With a newborn and a pre-schooler I felt I had enough to do without having to worry about not killing a plant. But, I knew that my son needed something special.

Within days we say the plant grow. It kept getting bigger and bigger. My son was intrigued.

Having the plant in a spot (the front yard in our case) where you spend a lot of time is key. Each time we would leave the house, I would point out something I noticed about the plant:

It’s growing taller.

Look at all the leaves.

LOOK, there’s a tiny tomato!

LOOK, there’s another tomato.

LOOK! The tomato is getting SO BIG!

LOOK! The plant is double it’s size!

LOOK! How many tomatoes do you see? FIVE? WOW!

I started to tell him how the tomato would get bigger and when it turns red we’d be able to pick it and EAT IT. This intrigues him. So, finally, just the other day, my son noticed one of the tomatoes starting to turn red. It’s an orange shade right now. Then, a couple more started turning red.

LOOK! They are turning red!

It’s been a great experience and give us something to do together each day. I like that it also teaches him some responsibility by having to water the plant. Even though this task only take five minutes of our day, it gives us some time alone to do something great together. Take a look at the photos below. I was able to practice with my new lens to capture these photos.

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Apr 15 2009

Talking To Your Kids About Sex: What’s The Appropriate Age?

One of the episode’s of Oprah last week was about talking to your kids about sex. What is the best age to start talking about the “mechanics of sex”? The emotional part of sex? Self stimulation? Masturbation? Even … vibrators?

It was an eye-opening episode for sure. Dr. Laura Berman (a sex therapist, who also has a twin sister who is an MD), says that we should start doing this when they are young. On the show, she walked an embarrassed mother through the mechanics of sex conversation, using print outs of the female and male genitalia (available for download on Oprah.com). The daughter was 10.

Dr. Berman says that 10 is not too young for this conversation, and that by the time the kids are in middle school we should have had this first conversation so that we can begin to have the other parts of the continuing conversation as they age.

She even suggests we tell our daughters about the possibility of using vibrators around the age of 15 or 16. As you can image, this caused quite a stir in the audience.

Kids today are sexting on their cell phones and talking (even engaging) in sexual conversations and acts at very young ages. I’m grateful that the Oprah show decided to expose this to us so we can prepare our children (boys included).

This Thursday, the conversation continues on Oprah — what to do if your child tells you he/she is ready to have sex.

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Feb 24 2009

Girls Teaching Girls About Cyber Security

LMK girl scoutsThe Girl Scouts of America have created a cool new team (female teenagers) to help teach young people how to stay safe on the Internet. “Good Morning America,” ran a segment about this new initiative:

Girl Scouts of America and Microsoft Corporation teamed up to create a new Web site that empowers girls to take control of their own online safety and help them educate their parents.”

Diane Sawyer relayed some staggering statistics at the beginning of the piece:

Forty percent of teens hide what they do online.”

Wow. That means your teenager might not be telling you everything. Even more staggering is this:

Twenty percent of kids 13 and under say they have met face to face with people they only met online.”

Parents: This is Your WAKE-UP CALL

Kids are meeting people they don’t know. They are talking to people they don’t know. These kids are young. Very, very young. And starting on computers at younger and younger ages. Communicating with a medium their parents don’t understand. This is where the Girl Scout initiative is going to come in handy. These girls are going to speak to other girls, on their terms. In their language.

The girls will be talking to parents too, teaching things like how to set up a Facebook page. They are also offering a free monthly Online Safety Newsletter, written by the teens for parents. Each month, the all-girl editorial board explores a different Internet safety topic online and then shares what it learned in the newsletter, which is distributed to adults the following month.

Being online is a part of every teenage girl’s life,” says Shannon, a member of the LMK editorial team. “Now we have a chance to teach our parents a thing or two about the real issues we face every day.”

This is a win-win folks.

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Feb 13 2009

Best Valentine’s Day Present

I already got the best Valentine’s Day present and it isn’t even February 14. My son said,

I love you.”

He did it without any prompting. It seemed as if he meant it too.

That’s all I need.

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